In a world that constantly shouts "notice me," there's a profound biblical principle that turns everything upside down. The secret to true influence isn't self-promotion or demanding recognition—it's humility.

Matthew 23:12 reveals a powerful truth: "For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted." This is the opposite of how the world operates, but it's God's way of doing things.

The Bible tells us that Moses was the most humble man alive in Old Testament times. This wasn't coincidental—it was precisely because of his humility that God used him so powerfully. When we understand that humility opens doors that self-promotion never could, we begin to see why God values this character trait so highly.

Billy Graham, who brought more people to Jesus than anyone else in history, demonstrated extreme humility throughout his ministry. When asked about being a great father, he deflected praise to his wife and admitted his shortcomings. He took time to personally thank a janitor and invite her to sit near the front during his crusade.

This wasn't false modesty—it was genuine humility that opened doors for gospel influence. As one mentor observed, "One of the things that has made Billy Graham successful all these years in sharing the gospel is that he goes to the extreme of humility."

In Matthew 18, Jesus called a little child and said, "Unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven." But what makes children such perfect examples of humility?

• They're trusting and follow where they're led
• They're loving and accept strangers easily
• They don't hold grudges
• They're incredibly teachable
• They learn more between ages 4-5 than most people learn in four years of college

These childlike qualities help us understand both Jesus and the kingdom of God. They represent the humble heart that God desires in His followers.In Matthew 18, Jesus called a little child and said, "Unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven." But what makes children such perfect examples of humility?

Even Jesus' own disciples struggled with pride, disputing among themselves about who was the greatest. But Jesus demonstrated a radically different approach. Philippians 2:6-7 tells us that though He was God, "he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant."

In His final hours before the cross, Jesus could have taught any lesson. Instead, He wrapped a towel around His waist and washed His disciples' feet. This wasn't just an act of service—it was God Himself bowing before human beings, showing them the secret to launching the church and having lasting influence.

Humility comes from Latin meaning "low" and Greek meaning "from the earth"—well grounded. Proverbs 22:4 defines it as "the fear of the Lord," which doesn't mean being scared of God, but having constant recognition that God is all-knowing, all-powerful, and all-present.

When we truly understand who God is, we naturally think, "Who am I that You would even notice me?" This perspective shifts our focus from seeking first billing to wanting God to receive all the glory.

Joseph's story in the Old Testament shows us humility in practice. Though he initially shared his dreams with pride, life's trials taught him genuine humility. Through serving in Potiphar's house, in prison, and eventually in government, Joseph learned to:

• Use his gifts faithfully wherever he was placed
• Consider nothing beneath him
• Serve with excellence as a way to honor God
• Trust that faithful service leads to God's promotion

Even when his brothers—who had betrayed him—came seeking help, Joseph served them with humility, seeing them not as they were but as God intended them to be: leaders of the twelve tribes of Israel.

True humility isn't thinking less of yourself—it's thinking of yourself less. It's not self-deprecation or false modesty. Instead, it's a genuine recognition that we are servants of the Lord Jesus Christ, belonging to Him completely.

As Mother Teresa said, "I belong to Jesus. He must have the right to use me without consulting me." This represents the heart of biblical humility—surrendering our rights and recognizing that we are His servants first and foremost.

This week, challenge yourself to practice "extreme humility" in your daily interactions. Look for opportunities to serve others without recognition, deflect praise to God and others who helped you, and approach each situation asking "How can I serve?" rather than "How can I be noticed?"

Consider these questions as you apply this message:

• In what areas of my life am I seeking recognition rather than opportunities to serve?
• How can I use my unique gifts and talents to serve others with humility this week?
• When someone compliments me, do I deflect praise appropriately or do I soak it up?
• Am I more concerned with being first or being faithful?

Remember, humility is the secret that unlocks true influence. When we humble ourselves, God promises to exalt us in His perfect timing. The goal isn't to be noticed by people, but to be used by God to make a lasting impact for His kingdom.