Discussion Guide | Feb. 15, 2026

February 18th, 2026

Introduction

"The Secret That Unlocks Influence" - Sermon Summary

This sermon explores the transformative power of humility as the secret to true influence in God's kingdom. Pastor Bill shares personal experiences with Billy Graham and Cliff Barrows, highlighting how their extreme humility opened doors for gospel ministry. The message contrasts worldly self-promotion with Jesus' model of servant leadership, using examples from Joseph's life and Jesus washing the disciples' feet. The core principle is that those who humble themselves will be exalted by God, while those who exalt themselves will be humbled. True humility means thinking of yourself less, not thinking less of yourself, and recognizing that we are servants of Jesus Christ called to use our gifts in service to others.

Intro Prayer

Heavenly Father, we come before You with grateful hearts, recognizing that You are all-knowing, all-powerful, and all-present. As we gather together today, we ask that You would open our hearts and minds to what You want to teach us through Your Word. Help us to set aside our own agendas and pride, and make us receptive to the ways You want to transform us. Give us the humility to receive what You have for us today, and the courage to apply it to our lives. We pray this in Jesus' name, Amen.

Ice Breaker

What's one skill or talent you had as a child that you either still use today or wish you could redevelop?

Main Study

Key Verses

Matthew 23:12
Matthew 18:2-4
Philippians 2:5-8
Mark 9:35
Galatians 6:9-10

Questions

How does our culture's emphasis on self-promotion conflict with Jesus' teaching about humility? What are some practical ways we can resist this cultural pressure?
Pastor Bill mentioned that children are trusting, loving, don't hold grudges, and are teachable. Which of these childlike qualities do you find most challenging to maintain as an adult?
The disciples disputed about who was the greatest even while following Jesus. Why do you think the desire for recognition and status is so persistent, even among believers?
Jesus chose to wash the disciples' feet as His final object lesson before the cross. What does this teach us about the kind of leadership and influence God values?
Joseph learned humility through difficult circumstances and used his gifts to serve others. How have challenging experiences in your life helped develop humility in you?
The sermon states that 'humility is not thinking less of yourself, it's thinking of yourself less.' What's the difference, and how can we practically apply this distinction?
Paul and James both identified themselves first as servants of Jesus Christ. How comfortable are you with thinking of yourself as a 'slave of the Lord Jesus Christ'? What does this mean practically?
Pastor Bill observed people cleaning up and caring for the church property when no one was watching. What are some 'behind the scenes' ways we can serve with excellence to honor God?

Life Application

This week, look for one specific opportunity each day to serve someone else without seeking recognition or credit. This could be as simple as cleaning up after others, helping a coworker, or doing a household task that isn't typically yours. Practice the humility of heart that Jesus modeled, and notice how God might use these small acts of service to open doors for influence and relationship.

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Closing

Key Takeaways

True influence comes through humility - those who humble themselves will be exalted by God, while those who exalt themselves will be humbled
Jesus modeled servant leadership by washing the disciples' feet, showing that greatness in God's kingdom comes through serving others
Childlike qualities such as trust, love, teachability, and not holding grudges are essential characteristics of kingdom living
Humility means thinking of yourself less, not thinking less of yourself - it's about putting others' needs before your own
We are called to be servants (slaves) of Jesus Christ, using our gifts and talents to serve others and advance God's purposes

Ending Prayer

Lord Jesus, thank You for the example You set for us in humility and service. You, being God, chose to humble Yourself and serve us even to the point of death on a cross. Help us to have that same mindset in our relationships with others. Give us the courage to put aside our desire for recognition and instead seek opportunities to serve. May we use the gifts and talents You've given us not for our own glory, but to honor You and bless others. Transform our hearts to be more like Yours - humble, loving, and focused on serving rather than being served. We commit to being people of prayer and people who walk in humility this week. In Your precious name we pray, Amen.

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